Elopement Weddings
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Cindi and Cory ~ Columbus, Ohio     
 
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"My husband and I decided to elope in West Virginia last minute while he was in the area on business.  My husband contacted Pam and she responded immediately.  I can't even begin to tell you how thorough and generous she was in helping us with the ceremony and with the location.  It was the perfect day!
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Follow her on Facebook when you are done with your vows - I guarantee that her quotes, ministry, and photos will warm your heart and will help you and your loved one grow together in your marriage!"

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Traci and Nathan - Charlotte, North Carolina

Pre-Planned Elopement Ceremonies and small intimate weddings in the comfort of your home or other location are some of the sweetest ceremonies I do.  This is basically for the couple who wants a drama-free ceremony, no details to distract you, just a celebration of your relationship.  There can be many reasons that lead you to decide you want to have a wedding of this type, but no matter what the reason, the end result is a wedding that is celebrated beteween the two of you, me and maybe a photographer to capture the moment and be our witness.  This type wedding allows the two of you to focus on each other and your relationship instead of so many other things that often become a part of a larger wedding.  I love being a part of Elopement Weddings.  Couples come to me rather than just going to the local courthouse because they want something a little more personal, and a lot more special than what a Justice of the Peace has to offer. They want something unique and memorable, something created specifically for them and a ceremony that will mark their "special moment in time".  That is what we do together. I go through the same process as I do with couples who want a much larger wedding and the end product is the same... a beautifully written ceremony.  I will talk with you, get to know all the special things about you and your relationship, and together we will craft a ceremony that celebrates your love as only your hearts can tell it.  And if you want to invite a few more guests to share in your joy; parents, siblings or best friends, that's perfectly alright too.  When it is larger than 5-6 guests however, it is considered a "normal" wedding ceremony rather than an elopement, but the end product and fees are the same.
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Whether you are spiritual, non-religious, religious or somewhere in between, I am committed to creating a personalized ceremony that incorporates your beliefs and values, celebrates who you are as a couple and includes customs, components and traditions that represent you best. The process will begin with the initial consultation; in person, by phone, or email to see if we are a good fit for each other. If we agree to work together we will discuss what is important to you, talk about some other ideas you may not have heard about and with the input you provide I will design a ceremony that truly reflects who you are and your wishes.
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I am passionate about love and marriage and I am passionate about what I do.  I promise to deliver your ceremony professionally and with the same eloquence as a wedding of a much larger scale.  The only difference will be that it is just the three of us.  Your ceremony will be enjoyable, a treasured memory and a truly quality experience full of joyful tears and plenty of smiles.
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Officiant Services
  • An initial meeting (In person, by phone or email)
  • As much phone and email communication as needed to develop your ceremony
  • Preparation of a couple-centered ceremony that reflects your love, dreams, beliefs, values and cultural traditions
  • Assistance with choosing or writing your vows
  • Assistance with finding readings that convey your thoughts concerning love and your special day
  • Incorporating Ceremonial Add-Ons of your choice
  • Preparation of a draft ceremony, discussion of same and fine tuning it to perfection
  • Professional and punctual Officiant for your ceremony, dressed in your choice of attire
  • I normally arrive one hour early to your wedding to help you with any last minute details or answer any questions you may have
  • Eloquent, passionately delivered ceremony that will bring joyful tears and smiles to all who hear it
  • Lovely keepsake certificate of marriage suitable for framing
  • Elegant, professionally bound copy of our vows and ceremony encased in a beautiful wedding portfolio
  • Delivery of your signed marriage license to your issuing County Clerk's office for filing within three business days of your wedding ceremony. I also photocopy it for you and mail it to you the same day.
  • An email afterwards with details about next steps ~ getting certified copies of your marriage certificate and how to change your last name, if relevant.
  • Upon request, presence and/or assistance at the rehearsal (may be an extra fee)

 

Fee Information

 

Fees are structured to support time dedicated to writing and designing your ceremony and are also dependent upon which package you choose. I custom-write each and every one of my ceremonies and no two are alike. This means that your ceremony will be one of a kind, totally unique to the two of you and there will never be another one exactly like it. Factors in determining the cost of your ceremony will include meeting time and travel, as well as time to write and officiate your ceremony.

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The fees are usually as stated on this page, but since every ceremony is unique, please e-mail me for a quote. Please be assured that all fees will be discussed openly and agreed upon prior to booking and there will be no hidden charges. Additional services, such as travel beyond a certain distance from my office may be extra. I travel all over the East Coast singing, speaking and doing weddings, so you just never know, I may be in your area at the same time you have scheduled your wedding.

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No matter which ceremony package you choose, please be assured that I will do everything within my power to make your ceremony totally stress free so that all you have to do is smile, say "I do", and enjoy your day. Smile
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NOTE: Every marriage must be solemnized under a marriage license issued by a clerk of the city, burrough, county or state that the couple chooses to be married in, in accordance with the provisions of the laws governing that particular state. If a ceremony of marriage is performed without a license, the attempted marriage is void, and the parties do not attain the legal status of husband and wife. Therefore, in order for your marriage to be legal, I must have your valid marriage license, in hand, prior to officiating your ceremony.
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CEREMONY PACKAGES (All prices include use of my Wireless PA System) 

When you find that special someone you want to spend the rest of your life with, your wedding day should be perfect in every way. Yet, when it comes to wedding ceremonies, not one size fits all. Whether your perfect day consists of a quiet exchange of vows with just the two of you, a romantic private ceremony at one of three beautiful countryside settings at my home or a ceremony with all the bells and whistles at a venue of your choice, I can custom-write and officiate a ceremony that will fit you perfectly.  I have several different packages available and regardless of which one you choose, your ceremony will be written with the utmost of care making it a true reflection of you, your personalities and your relationship. My ultimate goal is your satisfaction and I won't be happy until your ceremony fits you perfectly. Give me a call and let's talk. I would love the opportunity to work with you. (304) 472-0296 

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* Mileage and travel fees apply to all ceremonies performed at locations other than my home in Buckhannon, West Virginia, unless otherwise noted.

 

                    
COUNTRYSIDE WEDDING CEREMONIES, RENEWALS AND ELOPEMENTS
Includes Use of Venue, Ceremony, Music, First Dance and Photography 
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Are you planning a quiet, intimate wedding, vow renewal or elopement with just the two of you and a few select guests?  If so, I invite you to pledge your vows at my Countryside home where you can enjoy the tranquil beauty of nature, peaceful gardens and all the lovely sounds that await you.  The Ceremony is performed at my home, located in a quiet, wooded, country setting approximately eight miles outside the city limits of Buckhannon, West Virginia. The Countryside location is enhanced by wildlife, sounds of birds chirping and all the wonderful aspects of nature that the countryside is known for. I invite you to please visit my Countryside Weddings, Renewals and Elopements Page at http://www.sweetsongministries.com/id197.html  for complete details. 
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[The Following Packages Apply to Weddings and Vow Renewals Officiated at Venues Other Than My Home
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FOREVER IN LOVE ~ $350 [Travel Expenses May Apply]   

If you want to be married without all the fuss and drama that sometimes goes along with larger weddings but, at the same time, don't want to compromise the beauty of a ceremony that is meaningful and full of love, the "Forever In Love" is the perfect choice. Your ceremony will be uniquely written to reflect the gift of love you have found in one another and includes many features that are not typically found in traditional ceremonines. Whether you choose an intimate exchange of vows with just the two of you, or a celebration that you choose to share with those closest to you, I "vow" to make it extraordinary.

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Your Ceremony will include:

A love-inspired ceremony that is tender, meaningful and uniquely beautiful.

Traditional Wedding Vows, "I Do" Vows, or you may write your own.

* Special Joining of Hearts and Hands Addition before the exchange of rings and vows. 

* Keepsake Copy of Your Vows

Beautiful Rose Embossed Marriage Certificate.

Return service of your signed Marriage License to the proper authorities along with a complimentary copy provided to you by return mail.

* Inspirational Marriage Materials

 *EBook Written by Pastor Pam - "Secrets to a Deeper Love."

Name Change Document 

 

 

  

SWEET SONG STANDARD - $400 [Travel Expenses May Apply] 

If you want a truly special Marriage Ceremony that you help to create, then look no further. The "Sweet Song Standard" includes all the elements of the "Forever in Love" but takes it a step further by offering you the flexibility to include customized vows, a ceremonial add-on and a reading(s) of your choice.  
Your Ceremony will include: 
* A love-inspired ceremony that is tender, meaningful and uniquely beautiful.
* Your choice of vows from samples I provide (traditional, contemporary, religious, non-religious, funny... you name it). You can mix and match to create a vow that fits your personality. or you may write your own.
* Special Joining of Hearts and Hands Addtion before the exchange of vows and rings
* A Reading of your choice from samples I provide, or you can include one of your own choosing.
* One Standard Ceremonial Add-On of your choice (i.e., Unity Candle, Sand Ceremony, Love Letter Ceremony, Time Capsule Ceremony, Dove Release, etc.) 
* Keepsake Copy of Your Vows
* Beautiful Rose Embossed Marriage Certificate 
* Return service of your signed Marriage License to the proper authorities along with a complimentary copy provided to you by return mail.   
* Name change document 
* Inspirational Marriage Materials 
* EBook Written by Pastor Pam - "Secrets to a Deeper Love."
* Unlimited consultations by phone and/or email
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HEART & SOUL PERSONALIZED ~ $500 [Travel Expenses May Apply]
The "Heart & Soul Personalized Ceremony" is a fully custom-written ceremony that is a true reflection of you, the love you share and your dreams for the future. Every couple has a song of love in their hearts that they want the whole wide world to hear and helping them express that song in words is what I do best. Many couples find the "Heart and Soul Personalized Ceremony" to be the perfect choice because in addition to being meaningful, love-inspired, and uniquely beautiful, it is wholly, 100% about them. And best of all... it's affordable! No one else knows better than you the sentiments you want to express to your soulmate and no one wants to witness point-blank the tender exchange of your love and commitment to one another than me. Together we will transform YOUR STORY into a uniquely crafted marriage ceremony that will be the true highlight of the day.  
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Your Ceremony will include: 
* Your Story transformed into a one-of-a-kind ceremony that is personalized to reflect the true heart and soul of your relationship. 
* Elements detailing your love story; how you met, things you love about each other, your hopes and dreams for the future, all those special things that make your relationship the uniquely beautiful gift that it is.
* Your choice of vows from samples I provide (traditional, contemporary, religious, non-religious, funny... you name it). You can mix and match to create a vow that fits your personality, or you can write your own.
* Special Joining of Hearts and Hands Addition before the Exchange of Rings and Vows
* A reading of your choice from samples I provide, or you can include one of your own choosing
* One Standard Ceremonial Add-On of your choice (i.e., Unity Candle, Sand Ceremony, Love Letter Ceremony, Time Capsule Ceremony, Dove Release, etc.)
* Keepsake Copy of Your Vows
* Beautiful Rose-Embossed Keepsake Marriage Certificate
* Return Service of your signed Marriage License to the proper authorities along with a complimentary copy provided to you by return mail. 
* Name change document
* Inspirational Marriage Materials. 
* EBook Written by Pastor Pam - "Secrets to a Deeper Love."
* Unlimited consultations by phone and/or email. 
 
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DESTINATION WEDDINGS 
I am willing to travel anywhere you would like to hold your ceremony and distance is not an issue. The fee will be based on the Ceremony Package you choose, and time spent in making your day absolutely perfect! I have a lot of resources available to me that would help enhance your ceremony and am prepared to use them to your advantage in making your ceremony the amazing work or art that you would like it to be. Mileage, Lodging and Air Travel, if required, will be added to all packages. 

OPTIONAL ITEMS: 
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Interpretive Services Available Upon Request
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Rehearsals - $0 ~ $100
Many venues have dedicated Wedding Coordinators who run Rehearsals for their couples; however, if yours does not, I would be more than happy to orchestrate one for you. I am always on site an hour prior to the Ceremony and can do a complimentary walk through at that time. Or, if you prefer to hold your Rehearsal the evening prior to your ceremony I can do your Rehearsal for an additional fee of $100. I can also send you a detailed Rehearsal Guide if that would be beneficial. Please note that lodging costs will be added to all packages requiring overnight stays due to a Rehearsal.   
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Pre-Ceremony/ Wedding Music - $100 - [Music Before and During your Ceremony]

This includes wedding music up to one (1) hour before your ceremony, the Bridal March or your choice of Processional and Recessional and any other music you might want played during your ceremony.

[Any special music must be supplied to officiant prior to the start of the ceremony]   
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Ceremonial Add-Ons - $50 each
If a Ceremonial Add-On is not included as a part of the Ceremony Package you choose, you may add one or more at a cost of $50 each.  Please note that this charge is for writing the information pertaining to the add-on into your ceremony and does not include any of the supplies required to perform it. I do not furnish supplies for add-ons and they must be provided by the couple. Most supplies; candles, sand, vases, doves, boxes, etc. may be purchased from a local craft store or online distributor. 
 
EBook Written by Pastor Pam - "Secrets to a Deeper Love" - $14.95
It has been said that a successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person.  The real act of marriage takes place in the heart.  It's a choice that lasts long after our wedding day and should be reflected in the way we treat and interact with our spouse.  But, sometimes life gets in the way and it isn't always easy to hold on to the same loving feelings we had when we said our "I do's".  God cares deeply for all of us and desires that our lives be full of peace, joy and contentment, free from all the pain and stress that the world sometimes offers. Tough issues plague our society and bring pain to our lives which in turn can cause problems in our marriages, leaving us in search of answers. This is the basis for my book "Secrets to a Deeper Love." I have an awareness of these issues and it is my vision and passion to help others deal with them; not only in their lives, but in the lives of others with whom they care deeply.     
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Photography by Abi Elle Imagery - Prices range from $500 (Elegance Collection) to $1,250 (Exqusite Collection)
See our Photography page at http://www.sweetsongministries.com/id172.html for complete details and samples of photos graciously shared by many of our satisfied couples.

If you have not yet booked a Photographer to document your Wedding, I invite you to consider Abi Elle Imagery. Having photos that truly capture the essence of your love story is important and that is always our goal at Sweet Song Ministries. Abigail Layman is the light behind the camera and the heart behind Abi Elle Imagery. If interested, please contact Abby directly at abilayman12@gmail.com 

  
Meal Blessing - Complimentary
Many couples have a family member perform this function; however, if you would like me to stay and give a blessing before dinner, I would be absolutely honored!!!  I consider it a blessing to be a part of your special day and to be able to return thanks would be my sincere privilege.
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Writing Service - Fee will be based on the Package chosen from the above offerings, minus travel expenses 
I often get calls from couples who have asked a friend or family member to officiate their wedding, but many times the person chosen does not feel comfortable writing the ceremony. If this is your case, and you would like your ceremony to be personally written by an experienced professional, I would love to work with you. I will custom-write your personalized ceremony to your specifications, send you a draft for editing and I won't be happy until it fits your desires and expectations perfectly. Once you and your fiance approve your dream ceremony, I will finalize it and deliver it to you in a beautiful keepsake binder, along with a copy in easy readable format for your Officiant to use on the day of your wedding. Don't settle for less than your heart's desire. If I can help you, please don't hesitate to ask. Helping couples dreams come true is what I do and I would love to work with you. You may contact me at (304) 472-0296 or by email at faithaglow@aol.com.   
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NOTE:  I often officiate more than one ceremony per day and it is imperative that weddings begin promptly at the time they are scheduled.  When a ceremony starts late it not only cuts into the next couple's time, it makes traveling stressful as I drive to the next destination. That being said, there will be a $50 per 15-minute late fee for weddings that do not start on time. This fee is geared to protect my couples from being inconsiderate of one another and to allow me to do the best job possible in providing each of my couples the great service they expect and deserve. If more than 15 minutes late I reserve the right to cut out part of the ceremony to compensate for the time difference.  I do everything within my power to make your ceremony perfect and I want your wedding day to be a beautiful, memorable experience. Starting the wedding on schedule helps that to happen. Thank you for your consideration and I appreciate your understanding. 
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The Couple gives permission and shall allow The Officiant to post a photograph(s) of them with The Officiant (or any other photos taken by the Officiant or her Representative during the wedding ceremony) on The Officiant’s website or other social media for viewing by the internet community.  The Couple acknowledges that this is for promotional purposes only and they do not expect to receive any compensation of any kind.  There shall be no expiration for this permission. 


 
** I travel to various locations to perform marriage ceremonies so it is not feasible to set one standard rate that includes travel. Therefore, mileage, as well as air and lodging (if required), will be added to the above stated prices. Total cost will be discussed individually with each couple based upon your State and County requirements and your wedding destination, " 
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TRAVEL COST:
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Mileage and time spent traveling to and from your venue location will be added to all packages. 
Lodging costs will also be added if destination is beyond two hours driving distance from home office in Buckhannon, West Virginia.
 
** Costs of air travel, if required, as well as round-trip mileage from home office to Pittsburgh International Airport will be provided by the couple.  

 

BOOKING AND REFUND POLICY:

I officiate all my own ceremonies and take great pride in the fact that each one is delivered with "heart" and "passion". Booking is first come, first served and dates are held with a 50% NONREFUNDABLE deposit, the remainder of which is due 30 days prior to the wedding day. Deposits are remitted and accepted in good faith, and from the moment of initial booking, until the moment of "I do," my services are all about the couple and crafting a ceremony that mirrors their thoughts, dreams, and emotions perfectly. If by chance a couple finds it necessary to change their ceremony date, that couple may reschedule their wedding once, with all monies being fully transferrable to the new date, provided that the wedding is held within two years of the original date, and my schedule permits me to officiate the ceremony at that time. Additional rescheduling will incur a $150 rescheduling fee. After two reschedules, all monies paid will be forfeited and any further reschedules will be treated as new bookings. Ceremonies booked within 30 days of the Wedding date will require payment in full at the time of booking.

 

In the event I am sick, or unable to officiate a wedding due to circumstances beyond my control, Abigail Layman, Sweet Song Ministries Team Member and Professional Wedding Officiant will be on site to officiate on my behalf. Abby is a truly gifted professional and will totally knock it out of the park with her caring and love for what she does..

 
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METHOD OF PAYMENTPayPal, Check or Money Order 
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LET ME HELP TURN YOUR WEDDING DAY INTO A TREASURED MEMORY.
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I LOOK FORWARD TO SURPASSING YOUR EXPECTATIONS.
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OTHER SERVICES
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I also perform House Blessings, Celebration of Life Services, Christenings, Baby Naming Ceremonies and other life event services.  Contact me and let me know what your needs are and I will be in touch. 
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